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Chapter 1473 Tolerance (please subscribe every day!)

When they first found the gold mine, Xu Chang and Houzi were filled with excitement. However, after truly understanding the value represented by this huge rich gold mine, Xu Chang and Houzi panicked for the first time. , there is still a trace of confusion.

According to what Xu Chang said just now, the monkey estimated that there are gold mines under the ground of this island, and, judging from the piece of gold ore brought up by Xu Chang, this gold mine is still a rich gold mine.

Although Xu Chang and Houzi didn't know how big the gold mine was, Xu Chang and Houzi could say with certainty that the gold mine was definitely not small by virtue of the scale of the gold mine now exposed. Correspondingly, it shows that the interests represented by this gold mine must also be great.

Xu Chang and Houzi couldn't estimate the specific benefits of this gold mine, but they knew that this gold mine was definitely a huge sum of money for the two of them.

Besides, the yellow on the earth now needs gold to buy the elixir in the jade pagoda in the jade area, so the price is rising in a straight line, but now there is an absolutely rich gold mine here, so one of the benefits represented by this gold mine Big, it is already imaginable.To be honest, if this gold mine was just a small gold mine with little interest in ↖.⊙x.ne☆t, then Xuchang and Houzi would not be so flustered and confused , because, at that time, the two of them had enough mental capacity to mine this gold mine, but now the scale and value of the gold mine far exceed Xu Chang and Houzi's expectations.Therefore, Xuchang and the monkey are really sitting on wax now.

A red thing worth tens of millions. Many people saw that Xu Chang was a quasi-warrior.No one would come to the idea of ​​this thing, such a valuable thing is not worth fighting for life and death with a quasi-warrior.However, if the value of this thing exceeds hundreds of millions, billions, tens of billions, or even hundreds of billions, the result will be completely different.

At that time, there will definitely be countless powerful people who will come up with the idea of ​​this thing. At that time, the fate of Xu Chang and Houzi can be determined.

The best end for Xu Chang and Monkey is to get a little compensation.Then they were driven away from this gold mine. Of course, this was only the best end, and their worst end was a dead end. ………………………………………………………………………………………

According to Xu Chang and Houzi's estimates, the value of this gold mine has already exceeded [-] million. Such a large number is definitely a crazy number.Therefore, Xu Chang and Houzi already knew that they could not keep the gold mine, and the two of them wanted to survive.Only hand over this gold mine.

However, seeing such a huge gold mine in front of his eyes, he couldn't occupy it.Xuchang and the monkey are not reconciled, so.It is conceivable that the two of them are fighting fiercely in their hearts now.

"Brother Xuchang. Brother Houzi, what's the matter with you? Did something happen?" Soon, a voice woke Xu Chang and Houzi. Hidden away.

Just now when Monkey and Xu Chang talked about the gold mine, they said it behind the backs of those resting people, so only Monkey and Xu Chang know about the gold mine.

Although those people have already said that they will reform themselves after they go back and stop being a gangster, Xu Chang and Houzi both believe what these people say, but this does not mean that Xu Chang and Houzi believe in these things wholeheartedly. people.

Although these people are ready to rehabilitate themselves, their bad habits still remain and haven't been washed away. If the monkey didn't let Xu Chang let him go and share the wealth with him, the monkey wouldn't be so fast They have changed their ways, so now Houzi and Xu Chang don't trust those people very much, at least they don't discuss some very important things with these people. The matter about the gold mine is such an important thing.

Since a person has participated in the black meeting, it means that this person is very greedy for money, or that the psychological resistance to temptation is very weak. If such a person knows that there is a huge gold mine here, then in the end this person will Any choice or action can be estimated.

Facing such a huge gold mine, the first thing this person thinks is to monopolize this gold mine, and in order to monopolize this gold mine, this person will give everything for it, even if he wants to kill people for it, or even kill many people. There will be no hesitation in people's hearts.

If this person's force ratio is enough for him to kill everyone and monopolize this gold mine, this person will also try his best to occupy a large piece of the gold mine. If his idea cannot be realized, this person will definitely give birth many things.

And if this person knows that he can't get any big benefits from this gold mine, this person will turn around and sell this gold mine to others. Such a person has the mentality of 'since I can't get it, others can't get it' .

Now there are five members of the former black society around Xuchang and Houzi. Maybe none of the five people here are the people mentioned above, but no one can guarantee that there is no such person here, so Jin Xu Chang and Houzi absolutely don't want to tell others about the mine.

That's why, when someone came to ask them if something happened, the first thing Xu Chang and Houzi did was to hide the gold ore.

Although the surface of this piece of gold ore is covered with mud, it is now evening, and there is no sunlight shining on it, so the gold ore will not emit dazzling golden light. However, for safety reasons, the monkey and Xu Chang subconsciously kept the The gold ore was hidden.

Not afraid of ten thousand, just in case!

If the person in front of him had good eyesight, he would notice something strange about the gold ore.result…….

"Hehe..." Xu Chang smiled softly, and then he looked at the monkey very covertly.Seeing that the gold ore had been hidden behind the monkey, Xu Chang breathed a sigh of relief.Then Xu Chang pretended to be very enthusiastic, stepped forward and put his arms around the shoulders of the eyes, took a few steps forward with the eyes, and then said with a smile on his face: "Eyes, I have nothing to do with the monkey, we were thinking just now because We are thinking about how to deal with these dog head gold. You know, the value of our dog head gold is not small. If this matter is known to others, it will be a big trouble for us.

It doesn't matter to me, I have martial arts, but you are different, you have lost your martial arts, if those warriors or quasi-martialists have bad thoughts at that time, then the result... "

Xu Chang didn't say any more, but he knew that his eyes would definitely understand the meaning of his unfinished words.

Want to divert someone's attention.The best thing is to find another topic. Xu Chang has done a good job in this aspect. Now Xu Chang has completely brought his eyes into another topic, which is how to keep the dog's head money.

After listening to what Xu Chang said.The expression in his eyes became serious, he lowered his head and began to think, obviously he understood the unfinished meaning in Xu Chang's words just now.He began to worry about the dog's head gold he had just dug up.

Seeing that his eyes were distracted by his topic, Xu Chang relaxed.He looked at the monkey very covertly again, and the monkey gave Xu Chang a positive look.At this time, Xu Chang's heart really relaxed.

The monkey responded with such eyes, which meant that the monkey had already hidden the gold ore. Based on the very slight sound of stones rubbing against the soil when he was talking to his eyes just now, Xu Chang guessed that the monkey had hidden the gold ore. Throwing it into the big pit I just dug out, and this is the only way to hide the gold ore.

If the monkey just hides the gold ore on its body, it is definitely not the safest.After all, the monkey and himself are going back to the fishing boat, and once the monkey returns with the gold ore, there is a possibility that the gold ore will be discovered, even if the possibility is very low, but, after all, It is possible, so the safest way to hide the gold ore is not to take the gold ore back, but to find a place to hide it here.

As for the specific ownership of this gold ore... Hehe, now there is such a large gold mine, such a gold ore Xuchang really doesn't pay attention to, there is such a large gold mine, such a gold ore is lost Just lost it.

"Okay, eyes, don't worry about what I just said, don't worry, I have a way for you to safely bring the dog head gold back to the jade area, and as long as you bring the dog head gold back safely Yushi District, sell the dog head gold as soon as possible, then you will not be in any danger."

Seeing that the eyes were still frowning at the topic he had just diverted from, and the monkey had already dealt with the gold ore, so Xu Chang started to "rescue" the eyes.

"Ah...?! Ah...!" His eyes were puzzled at first, but at this moment his eyes were still immersed in what Xu Chang said just now, and he couldn't extricate himself from it. He actually didn't hear Xu Chang's words clearly, so, it seemed The reaction of the eyes was very slow, and in the next second, the face of the eyes was full of surprises, and only then did the eyes really react.

"Brother Xuchang, you said that you have a way to guarantee the dog's head gold on us, don't you?"

The eyes asked anxiously, now that the eyes have lost their martial arts, and they don't know when they will be able to practice the martial arts on their body, and after the eyes go back, they still want to correct their evil and return to the right, so the dog head gold on his body is very important to the eyes , It's really important, these dog head gold can guarantee the life of the eyes in the future.

Why did the eyes join the Hei Shihui? In fact, one of the most important reasons is that the eyes do not have many life skills. Without life skills, it is really difficult for the eyes to live in society in the future.

It is precisely for this reason that the eyes joined the Black Club without hesitation. Although the Black Club is not a good place, at least the eyes can have a bite to eat.

However, this time, the eyes were really frightened by Leng Xin's cold-blooded behavior, so when the eyes were ready to go back, they quit the black society.Under the threat of life, everything else is scum.

But.If the eyes withdraw from the underworld society, he will once again become the bottom of the whole society without life skills.Facing the dilemma of survival again.

If the martial arts on the eyes are still there, he doesn't have to think about these things. At least he can still rely on the martial arts on his body to be someone else's bodyguard or something, and the most generous one can also be a security guard or something, but don't forget the eyes The martial arts on his body have been abolished by Zhao Chaogang, so now the dog's head gold on his eyes is as far as the eyes are concerned.It's really extremely important.

Although these dog-head golds on the eyes are not big, but the number is not small, there are a total of eight. In addition, these dog-head golds were found in the jade area, with the gimmick of martial arts secret environment as a selling point, these dog-head gold The value of gold will definitely increase greatly. In this case, these dog head golds are enough for the eyes to live in the future.Therefore, these dog-headed golden eyes are definitely more important than their own lives.

Now that the eyes suddenly heard Xu Chang say that he could guarantee the safety of the dog's head gold on his body, of course there would be such an expression of joy on the eyes' face.

"Hehe, eyes. Don't be so excited, don't worry, what I said is absolutely true. I'm not lying to you." The excited look in the eyes made Xu Chang a little uncomfortable, in order to stabilize the eyes.Xu Chang only opened his mouth to explain again: "Eyes, the only people who know about the dog's head gold on you are those here. Therefore, if you want to ensure the safety of the dog's head gold on you, just let us know Just keep it secret.

Me, you don’t have to worry, the amount of the dog’s head gold on me is not only more than yours, but the value is far more than the combined value of all the dog’s head gold on your body, so you don’t have to worry about me putting the dog’s head gold on you. Fantastic say it.I also wish that you would never talk about dog-head gold. In that case, the dog-head gold on me would be safe. "When he said this, Xu Chang put his hands together and had a funny expression on his face.

"Hahaha...!" Xu Chang's words made people like eyes burst out laughing, especially when Xu Chang said the last sentence, the funny look on his face made people like eyes burst out laughing.

Seeing the eyes, these people laughed, and Xu Chang also laughed. Just now Xu Chang made such a childish action, in fact, he wanted to relax the atmosphere. The more relaxed the atmosphere, the more effective his persuasion.

"Eyes, now I won't tell you about the dog's gold on you, so if you want to keep the dog's gold on you a secret, only you are left, and that Leng Xin who was just driven away by us.

Yourselves, I believe that you will definitely keep the dog-head gold on your body a secret, and I believe you will not be so stupid to spread the news about the dog-head gold, otherwise, once the news about you having a lot of dog-head gold spreads If so, I believe you all know what the result will be.

Therefore, the only thing that needs to be considered now is how to keep Leng Xin from keeping the Goutoujin matter a secret. "Speaking of the matter here, Xu Chang paused for a moment, ready to give the eyes and these people a buffer time.

"Well, yes, Brother Xu Chang, you are right. Now the only problem left is how to let Leng Xin keep the dog-head gold on us a secret. However, with the mouth growing on Leng Xin, it is impossible for us to imprison Leng Xin. , even if we want to imprison Leng Xin, the 'Desert Eagle' on him can wipe out our entire army, so, this..., this...."

Having said this, his eyes lowered and his brows began to wrinkle. He was stumped by this question.Not only are the eyes stumped by this for you, but the others are now also like the eyes, all frowning, obviously they are also stumped by this question.

Seeing the eyes, the brows of these people began to frown. Xu Chang on the side smiled slightly, and he said: "Okay, eyes, don't worry, I have already thought of a solution to this problem."

"Really, Brother Xu Chang, what solution did you think of?" Eyes looked at Xu Chang in surprise, the tone of the speech was really enthusiastic, coupled with the extremely hot eyes in the eyes, it made one side Xu Chang had goosebumps, and couldn't help touching his hand.

"Okay, okay, eyes. Stop looking at me with such hot eyes, eyes. I'm not a woman."

"Hahaha...!" Xu Chang's witty words once again made everyone laugh out loud, and the atmosphere was a bit serious.Once again it was easy.

"Okay, okay, stop laughing, everyone, it's important." Seeing that the atmosphere was almost lively, Xu Chang spoke again: "Eyes, I actually want Leng Xin to never mention the dog head gold thing for the rest of his life. That's completely impossible. Just now we kicked Leng Xin out of here, so that he can only look at him jealously, which has completely offended Leng Xin.

According to my estimate.After Leng Xin returns to the Yushi District, he will tell you about the fact that you have a lot of gold on your body, or just ambush you in secret, and use his 'Desert Eagle' to rob you, this person Leng Xin It's not a bad thing, you have seen his cold blood with your own eyes. "

Xu Chang's words once again silenced the people in the eyes. They had indeed witnessed Leng Xin's cold blood not long ago, and it was precisely because they had seen Leng Xin's cold blood that they did so.Only those with eyes can truly make up their minds to break away from the underworld and rewrite it.

"Brother Xuchang, then your solution is..." Eyes asked hesitantly.

"Actually, my solution is very simple, that is, after going ashore. I will drag Leng Xin, and you go back to Yushi District first.

As long as I drag Leng Xin by the shore for an hour or two, then you will definitely be able to return to the Yushi District safely.And then, as long as you stay in the safe zone of Yushi District.Even if Leng Xin spread the news that you have a lot of gold on your body throughout the Yushi District, it would be of no use.

Fighting is strictly prohibited in the safe zone of Yushi District.You will be in absolutely no danger there.Next, you just need to find the right target and sell all the dog's head gold on your body. As long as you sell all the dog's head gold on your body, the person who made up your mind will disappear.

When you have dog head gold on you, it is easy for others to grab it, but when the dog head gold becomes contribution value or red, it will not be so easy for others to grab it.

Although, you still have to live in the safe area of ​​Yushi District for a period of time because of this, but at least this is safer, and you don't have to worry about your life at all, and you can take advantage of this sheltered time to practice martial arts again , Such a thing is simply killing two birds with one stone!Eyes, you say, is this the truth? "

Xu Chang directly explained his thoughts completely to the eyes and these people. Moreover, when explaining, Xu Chang explained in great detail. In fact, Xu Chang still had a lot of selfishness in doing this.

The more these people kept secret about the dog head gold, the more time he had to deal with the gold mine, and the more time Xu Chang had to deal with the gold mine, the greater the benefits he would get.

If it wasn't for Xu Chang not being a cold-blooded person, his best choice now would be to directly kill monkeys and the like. With Xu Chang's current ability, it would be easy to do this.

In this case, the gold mine will be kept secret for a long time, and Xu Chang will benefit greatly from it.It's a pity that although Xu Chang usually kills countless fish, it is really difficult for Xu Chang to want him to kill people like monkeys.

In fact, it is only natural that Xu Chang did not choose to kill monkeys and these people to monopolize the gold mine, because Xu Chang is a good person in essence, otherwise, in such a life-and-death crisis, why would Xu Chang insist on taking his younger brother Xu Jie with him? When Zhao Chaogang rescued the two brothers Xu Chang and Xu Jie, he still tried his best.

If Xu Chang was not a good person in essence, then Zhao Chaogang would save Xu Chang and the others at most, and it would be impossible to want anything else. Moreover, Zhao Chaogang would definitely give Xu Chang and others some suffering.

Zhao Chaogang doesn't have such a big belly for those people with bad temperament!

"Thank you Brother Xuchang, thank you Brother Xuchang...!" Eyes thanked Xu Chang with gratitude. Xu Chang just explained it so clearly, so their understanding of eyes is also very simple. They know that if they really follow what Xu Chang just said If they do as they say, then the dog's head gold on them will definitely be safe.

Before this, the eyes and these people actually had a grudge with Xu Chang, but now, Xu Chang not only does not settle accounts with them, but also considers them in this way, it is impossible for these people to be grateful to Xu Chang.

"Hehe...!" Xu Chang smiled softly at the grateful eyes, "Okay, okay. If everyone can dig dog's head gold together here, it means that we are all destined, besides. I The quantity and value of these dog head gold on my body are much larger than yours, a lot. I still need you not to reveal the secrets on my body, so you don’t have to be so polite with your eyes. It's all beneficial, isn't it!"

"Anyway, we still want to thank you, brother Xuchang. If it weren't for you, brother Xuchang, how would we have such a blessing to get these dog head gold. So, brother Xuchang, I apologize for my behavior to you and your brother before, Thank you, brother Xuchang, for helping us so much, thank you!"

After the eyes finished speaking, he directly bowed at ninety degrees, that look.That action is definitely the most sincere.

Before Xu Chang could say anything, other people also made the same movements as their eyes. These people also bowed ninety degrees to Xu Chang and thanked: "Brother Xu Chang. Please forgive our previous mistakes, Brother Xu Chang, thank you !"

Looking at the five people in front of him, they all bowed and apologized to themselves at ninety degrees.Thank you, Xu Chang felt a burst of warmth in his heart.Of course he can hear that the people in the eyes are really sincere in saying these things, so.Only Xu Chang could feel such warmth in his heart.

At this time, Xu Chang really felt that "don't be blinded by hatred, only with a tolerant heart can you truly feel life!" 'The meaning of this sentence.

Indeed, a person should not be blinded by external hatred, he must have a tolerant heart, otherwise, this person's life will not be smooth and happy!

Hatred is a psychological emotion shared by all human beings. People are dissatisfied with people, things, and things, or because others violate their own wishes, and the emotions of extreme boredom, resentment, and anger are called hatred. And to generate deep resentment is hatred.

"Hate" is listed as one of the twenty follow-up afflictions together with "anger" and "annoyance" in Buddhist theory. It is based on anger. It is resentful, angry, and resentful towards unfavorable situations that do not meet one's wishes. Addition of beatings and scolding, severe cases of wrath and sticking, addition of killing.

Volume [-] of "Cheng Wei Consciousness Theory" says: "What is hatred? It is said that anger is the first, harboring evil is relentless, forming resentment is a nature, being able to prevent hatred, and being annoyed is a karma. It is said that those who form hatred: can't bear it, It is due to constant heat and anger. This is also the reason why anger and hatred are divided into one body, and there is no separation from anger and hatred.

There is no love for no reason in the world, and there is no hatred for no reason. The reasons for the formation of hatred are complex. From a broad perspective, there are public and private reasons.

At critical junctures involving the rise and fall of the country, the life and death of the nation, on issues of right and wrong in defending the highest interests of the country, in the field of safeguarding the principles of social public morality and justice, and in the face of vicious enemies who are vicious and do all kinds of evil, people will fight against the case. Filled with righteous indignation and rage, aroused earth-shattering hatred, awe-inspiring righteousness, hated enemies and bad guys, and sang countless epic and immortal movements.

Countless heroes in history dedicated themselves to the truth with this supreme hatred. During the War of Resistance Against Japan, Buddhist monks also uttered the roar of "mounting to kill thieves, dismounting and chanting scriptures" to uphold justice in the face of national calamity and family enmity.

However, most of the hatred between people we meet, see, and hear in our daily life is mostly due to self-interest, or because of unfair or unfair treatment, or because of extreme insults, personal attacks, or because of The stakes are intensified, the economic losses are huge, or the hatred is really generated because of important matters related to personal life and life.

This level of seriousness, so that it is very rare to develop into a sworn hatred, most of them are said to be so hateful that they can't cast themselves on jackals, but the reasons are mostly trivial.

Either they have different understandings, views, or viewpoints, or they listen to gossip that is embellished, or they don’t trust, understand, or suspect each other, or they listen to hearsay and misunderstandings deepen, and what’s more, the deeper the love, the deeper the hatred.

Of course, there are also purely self-induced reasons, such as seeing other people's talents, reputations, status, and circumstances better than their own, and jealousy and dissatisfaction generate hatred.

There are so many so-called hatreds in the world, and it is impossible to list them all, but most of them are caused by material interests and interests, and it is difficult to escape the hatred between people.Money is black, and desire becomes trouble.

Don't you see, the hatred between housework.Mostly for money; hatred between colleagues, mostly for power; hatred between friends.Most of them are fame and fortune; the hatred between neighbors is mostly the mutual calculation of petty needles and brains, small favors and small favors.

They are all obsessed with the two aspects of "my law".Individualism is number one, Lao Tzu is number one in the world, don’t let people get the reason, let alone get the benefits, and a lot of them are self-inflicted troubles, just because they can’t swallow it, they artificially inflate resentment , coupled with the loss of reason due to hatred.Emotional agitation, smoke from the seven orifices, unstoppable anger, improper behavior, anger leads to deeper hatred, resulting in irreparable consequences, and it is too late to regret.

The consequences of hatred are innumerable, and there are so many people who have suffered from revenge. It is worthy of us to learn the painful lessons seriously.

first.Hatred blinds people.People who are full of hatred are generally unable to consider and analyze problems calmly, soberly, objectively, and comprehensively. They look at people through colored glasses, and everything they see is distorted.

Secondly.Hatred makes mistakes.The burning anger makes the mentality completely distorted, stubborn, and only likes to listen to the echo.You can't listen to harsh advice at all, and it's entirely the fault of others when you give reasons.And intentionally or unintentionally exaggerated the grievances he suffered, wrong source of information.Inevitably leading to wrong decisions will inevitably lead to irreversible consequences.

Again, hatred can make a person wrong.The raging hatred in the chest controls the emotions. When you are angry, you will lose your mind. You will not be able to weigh the seriousness, and you will not be able to predict the consequences. .

In the end, hate can derange a person.The lyrics sang: "Hatred must germinate in the heart", which is absolutely correct. Under the torment of hatred, everyone wants to take revenge, but in real life, many revenges cannot be reported, cannot be reported, or are not revenge at all. So there is no way to repay it, and you can only torture yourself. The light ones are brooding, swallowing their anger, crying to the corner, and passing the days like years;

In severe cases, anxiety is burning, as if sitting on pins and needles, the five internal organs collapse, life is worse than death, and it seriously endangers physical and mental health.

In fact, it is not difficult to get rid of the troubles of hatred!

First, we must correctly understand ourselves.What am I?I, like hatred, are all the combination of conditions, arising from conditions, and extinction due to separation.Love is life, hate is life, why not live in the emotion of love instead of hatred?love is destiny

Hate is also fate, why should we be persistent?Love is knowledge, hate is also knowledge, and cannot be taken seriously.Every question can be understood in this way or in that way, why not imprison yourself in hatred?

People are social beings, they must rely on society to survive, and they must rely on the help of others to achieve their careers.

We often use a drop in the ocean to describe a person's insignificance, because any person is so insignificant in the society as a whole, no matter how high he is, how powerful he is, how famous he is, or how much money he has, he cannot escape this law.

If in your interactions with others, you always think that Lao Tzu is number one in the world, he is supercilious, he is the only one who respects himself, he is not pleasing to the eyes of others, he suspects that everyone around him is plotting against him, and he puts everyone on the opposite side of himself, he always feels that everyone is different from him. If you can't make it through, the psychology of hatred will arise leisurely.

Second, we must correctly understand society.Society is a group of people connected to each other due to common material conditions, and people in society have to deal with people consciously or unconsciously.

Since people in every society have their own unique experiences, education received, environment of growth, people they come into contact with, etc., the criteria for judging right from wrong, life experiences and lessons, angles of seeing problems, and ways of dealing with problems also have their own advantages and disadvantages. , cannot be uniform.

Therefore, in interpersonal communication, there are such and such differences, and it is only normal to form such and such festivals.

The common people's common saying, "There are all kinds of birds in the forest" is very philosophical.

As far as talking about people behind their backs is concerned, "Who doesn't talk about people behind their backs, and whoever doesn't talk about people behind their backs", this is a true portrayal of the relationship between people. People are inherently a complex polyhedron, and it is impossible to shape others according to your wishes. .

It is completely correct to advocate understanding long live now. There is more understanding between people and less suspicion. "Don't do to others what you don't want to do to yourself." The problem, all resentment and jealousy will disappear, and all hatred will naturally disappear.

The third is to show more love.People are caring for others while living in this world, and at the same time being cared for by others.

Parents, teachers, brothers and sisters, friends and neighbors, classmates and colleagues, strangers and even all sentient beings, all of them are caring for each other, because everyone knows that caring for others is a valuable virtue.

But when faced with despicable snobs, unequal enemies, and enemies with deep grievances, we don't think we should care and care, and accidentally retaliate.

In fact, they are other people, and they have emotions and desires just like us. As long as they give love, they will be rewarded, and good intentions will be rewarded.

And enemies are the closest people we never forget, they make us mature, they push us to improve, we keep working hard in order to win the breath in front of our enemies and enemies, we should have their share of the achievements, and we should thank them.If you don't believe me, try it, as long as the hatred is resolved, you will become the closest friends.

Caring for others is also caring for yourself, because when you forgive your enemies and give love, you will be liberated first, and your heart will be liberated, otherwise it will be yourself who will be tortured day and night.

There is a story that a man who narrowly escaped from a prisoner-of-war camp said to his fellow sufferers at the time: "Have you forgiven those cruel guards? I have not at all. I often think of those villains and the inhuman treatment I suffered. , I really hate it so much that I gnash my teeth, and I always want to cut them into pieces to relieve my hatred."

After hearing this, his friend in prison said to him calmly: "If this is the case, then you are still imprisoned by them."

That's right, you are the one who is angry, and you are the one who is resentful. It is your own teeth that are biting and cutting your own teeth. What does it matter to others?

Fourth, be tolerant.Unsatisfactory things in life are common. Everyone will encounter insults, grievances, and unsatisfactory things in one way or another. If you don't take this revenge, you will never give up.In fact, this is still taking oneself too seriously, and I am still number one in the world.

If you can truly understand that "I" is just a symbol, there is no eternal subject, and it is constantly changing.We will naturally treat other people's bullying and insults with a tolerant attitude and a calm mood, consciously eliminate the anger in our hearts, and be free from hatred.

Mr. Hu Shi once said: "I have been scolded for more than ten years, and I never resent the person who scolded me. Sometimes they scolded me inappropriately, but I was anxious for them. Sometimes they scolded too much, which damaged the scolder's own personality." , I feel uneasy on their behalf. If scolding me benefits the scolder, then I owe him an indirect favor, and I am willing to be scolded.” Mr. Shizhi is a real wise man.

When it comes to tolerance and generosity, we always have a condescending feeling of giving gifts and giving to others, which is often accompanied by an inexplicable sense of superiority and disdain for the tolerant object.

This seems to be tolerant, but in fact it is based on appearance, and the appearance of self and other people is very important.

In fact, tolerance must be based on patience and humiliation, and tolerance must be based on complete selflessness and broad love. Without love, humiliation cannot be tolerated. If the abuser is truly regarded as one's own parents, brothers and sisters , what kind of humiliation can bear.

Maitreya Bodhisattva said in the verse: "The old man wears a jacket, the stomach is full with light food, mending the broken can keep out the cold, and everything is as it is. Some people scold the old man, but the old man only says yes. Some people beat the old man, and the old man falls asleep. .Spit on the face, let him do it. I save energy, and he is not troubled. This kind of paramita is a wonderful treasure. If you know the news, why don’t you worry about it.”

With a heart of tolerance like that of Maitreya Bodhisattva, we can face him and me calmly, hatred will inevitably be melted into tolerance, and a brand new realm will be displayed in front of us.

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